My poor confused husband..

I'll tell you one thing he sure thinks he's clever....... trying to be funny and currently mumbling in the shower saying who knows what- this happens often lately a lot in his sleep as well and I stay up listening thinking he is actually talking to me as I am wanting to fall asleep and can't. I feel that I am a very tolerant person considering the fact that my house and life feels constantly turned upside down daily with a 10 month old. He works late, doesn't answer his phone, responds to my emails on a rare whim, acts like a second child, thinks he knows everything applying this little known knowledge of things to create half way finished mess throughout the house and in the garage disaguising themselves as half motorcycles, torn apart engines, wood projects I will stop now but his endless a.d.d. mindset requires my stern sometimes not so loving approach to maintain control of the chaos -maybe I should give him more credit but you do not have to live in it. Ask him the latest thing is I am the brains of this operation and he is the monkey.. besides he is obsessed with banana phones- don't ask.